also thinking about volunteering time and cleverness to the co-op because it's something I believe in and they need people. I have a bit of time (and they're not asking for tons), and the discount makes the better food equivalently priced (especially when one considers my local grocer is raley's - pricey).
considering the idea that settling down with someone I wouldn't want to have/raise children with might not be a barrier if I don't actually want children...which is a whole other mess of conversation with regard to overpopulation, idiocracy, bad genes, fiscal responsibility...it's weird how that whole biological clock thing is real. as I get older, the more I think I want to hold a baby, nurse one, impart wisdom and optimism into a tiny person's soul and see them off to do well in the world. I think I could be content raising a baby, managing a household (I was actually really good at it (minus the baby part) while living in Dominica - ended up surprised at how fulfilling it could be to manage a household, cooking new and interesting things, keeping the place clean, learned a lot about what I can do without in this life)...women's lib was really a crock of horseshit, since the backlash means that society as I know it frowns on any female who is content to be a housewife as slothful or having no ambition (which is extra especially crapola since being a housewife is the craziest most demanding fulltime job there is if one doesn't rely on a nanny and housekeeper). the movement completely robbed me of my ability to bake and sew for my food and shelter. too bad I can't barter handspun/handknit items and dog obedience training for everything I need in this life. ironically, and I say 'ironic' in its truest sense because it's the feedback I've gotten from many people, for all my clever quick-wittedness and assertive bitchiness I generally have no ambition toward anything specific. I don't mind hard work, I love learning new things, but I have no desire for monetary extravagances beyond what I can live on, and no ambition for power or authority.
maybe I should just finish my degree, do some groundbreaking research, and retire on my laurels. I could actually retire (stop earning income, now, at 28) on like half a million dollars. I could live off that for sixty years (plus whatever attentive investing could raise would be a bonus)...that's half a nobel prize. maybe a whole one after taxes and stuff.
the not knowing what I want to be when I grow up doesn't really bother me, I feel no pressure. the pressure comes from seeing babies and wanting one. wanting to feel pregnancy and to teach a little human everything I know...emotionally. rationally, I want no such thing - children are expensive, there are already too many of them on the planet, and any child I have will most likely be terribly intelligent and adorable...and then die young of something internal and malignant.
bah. maudlin thinking, that. moving on.
am enrolled in a program that offers a lot of possibility, lots of interesting things, but have a deep seated need to avoid one of the instructors, because she is downright terrible at her job. truly terrible - assignments' value, content, and due date have all been known to change capriciously, sometime within days of the assigning, sometimes not until the night before something is due, and I am not someone who feels they've learned much in a completely disorganized setting like this - so the only way I'm going to make it through the program is if I can find other sections/instructors for the classes she teaches. also, if I want to join the BS/MS combo program, I'll need to declare that sometime soon.
enough for now, maybe. gonna go check next semester's schedule so I can register on monday with some sort of plan already in place.
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maybe you and i should operate a household and take turns being the wife?
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